Thursday, May 17, 2012

My Website & Cuckolds

So, it's been insanely busy for me. Mostly because I need to go back east at the end of the month for personal family reasons. I am also, going to try to open my website for all of you to join, before I go. Which means, I am editing like fool right now. Along with trying to finish up a few customs before I leave. I really only have two weeks to get this all together. I also, have my cam shows, shoots, and other stuff. So, I will manage. I am so, glad Jimi King and Rifferus are both helping me out. It would be tough if it were just me. A little help goes along ways.

This weekend, I also have Dom Con. With the official launch of Irongate. I am just thinking, how am I going to do all this? I guess just suck it up and do. I won't be on line much when I am gone for about two weeks. I won't have much access where I am going. Plus, time will be limited.

Anyways, the site will be awesome. I am editing photo's and posting things over there, that no one has ever seen before. Which is super exciting. Super, awesome for you guys for sure. I am so, tired right now. I have another cam show in the morning. Hoping to see you there. :-)

I do have a new clip up on my download clip stores.


Kymberly's Cuckold Bimbo Transformation
Staring Kymberly Jane and Rifferus
View this video for Download at the links below. I also, have previews at those links as well.
http://www.clips4sale.com/15441
http://www.eclipstore.com//store/88
http://www.samanthagrace.kinkbomb.com







Kymberly Jane is married to a starving artists name Norm. Kym recently finished law school, and just finished her first big case at her new firm. She is dressed like a lawyer, dress, pantyhose and high heels. Two of her co-workers meet at Riff's house to celebrate the big win with drinks.

Riff is the hot shot at the firm and is the ladies man. He also, has a thing for Kym. He tries but she is the only woman who refuses him. When Kym's husband calls, Riff slips “bimbo potion” into her drink when sh is distracted. She take a few sips of her drink, and slowly becomes a bimbo. While talking to his husband on the phone, she becomes more and more 80's valley girl ("like", "totally", "oh my god", "whatever", “as if”.) . At first she is annoyed by Riff's advances while reassuring her worried husband. She start talking more bimbo and giggling, as she let's Riff put his hands all over her. Humiliating her husband, by discussing how much hotter Riff is, how he has a much bigger drink and is way rich.

She tells Norm that she's going to stay awhile, because Riff is really cool and sexy, and she's having fun. She begins arguing with her husband about this, becoming very bitchy towards him. Riff convinces her that Norm is uncool, and she tells Norm she's going to divorce him, then hangs up. Riff mentions her job, and she rolls her eyes, says that female lawyers are "so not hot", then calls to quit her job. The video ends with Riff and Kymberly all over each other.

Friday, May 11, 2012

Domcon

I've had one nasty eye infection the last few days. The worst I have ever have. I had to cancel two shoots and two cam shows. However, I do have some good news for next week. As many of you know, it is domcon weekend next weekend. So, that means, I will be attending domcon so, come out and see me at the Irongate Studio's booth!
The domcon website, where you can find everything you need to know about this event. http://www.domconla.com/notice.htm

I am also, excited to announce, that my play space Irongate, is officially launching. Check out the parties we have, during domcon. This is a great chance for you to have an in person session with me!

Mistress Lexine is this years Sponsor for DOMCON's Fetishist Social and am proud to announce the launch of BLISS....IRONGATE STUDIOS Newest Spank and Worship Play party brought to you by popular demand from the maker of S.W.A.T. Mistress Lexine will have a booth at DOMCON to introduce herself and the Angels of Domination as IRONGATE STUDIOS makes its official DEBUT to the fetish community. Dont miss this incredible opportunity to meet our Angels and stop by our booth for fantastic DOMCON specials.
IRONGATE STUDIOS are having Events on May 14th, May 17th and May 18th during Domcon week.
IRONGATE STUDIOS is newly remodeled and is one of Los Angeles premier dungeons there is none in comparison to this upscale private and discrete play space.

IRONGATE is a 1500 SQ FT fully equipped dungeon play space that features with several themed rooms equipped with St. Andrew's Cross, padded bondage table, large steel cage, spanking horse and bench, suspension, specialty chairs, bondage sling etc. We can accommodate all types of sessions even overnight dungeon setting sessions!

Our toy selection is an arsenal of pleasure ranging from paddles, floggers, whips, canes, bondage gear, sensory play gear, gags, and beyond! Stop by and choose your weapon. Don’t worry about being messy or having to go out after your session….We also have an entire SHOWER room big enough to play in or use for clean up.
IRONGATE STUDIOS is just outside of Hollywood off the 101 freeway and only 30 minutes from LAX Los Angeles airport with plenty of parking.

If you have any questions about the party contact Misstress Lexine.  mistresslexine@yahoo.com

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Want Have A In Person Session With Me?

I'm doing sessions check this out.... http://tinyurl.com/SGbackpage

(Note I only do domme sessions, NO sub or switch sessions. DONT ASK)

Sunday, May 6, 2012

How to become my pay pig (Oink for me)


How to become my pay pig and not be blocked or ignored.

I like my wallet piggies (oink for me) to be intelligent, caring, kind, and considerate. Someone who is respectful of my time and someone who I can reasonably have a conversation with, when I have time.

Always be polite when contacting me and use proper protocol. Refer to me as Mistress or Goddess and never make demands. You should be ready to tribute without making excuses, complaining, or whining. Someone who is serious about serving me will make a tribute of their free will. The tribute does not have to be huge. It can be a small $25 Amazon email giftcard, $25 Pay Pal gift, or even a small gift from my amazon wish-list. The amount doesn't have to be huge, simply what you can do. This shows me you are genuine and devoted to serving me. You are not just another silly guy wanting to talk about your fantasy or what you would do.

Surprises and unasked for gifts please me greatly. If it's an item on my wish-list, it is something I enjoy. A slave sending me that item shows he was thinking of me and he desires to bring me joy. You understand that my joy will bring you joy.

A contract with me is another great way for you to serve me. A contract makes me happy and it also shows that you can be trusted. It also gives you a way of budgeting yourself so, you can be sure you have enough to be a devoted slave. You do not need to be a huge cash cow, a monthly contract of $150 or even $50 can work. As long as you keep consistent and follow through with the contract, I will be happy. Keep in mind if you do not disappoint me, you will see the rewards of being my slave.

Please, if you find yourself not able to make a tribute one month, don't vanish, disappear, or become silent. Be honest. Do not, however, do this the first time I expect a tribute from you. If you do, you will be blocked and forever remembered as a time waster. Make your tributes on time for the amount agreed on in the contract. The following month when your funds are better, make a double tribute or send me a special item on my wish-list. Show you are devoted and you really want to serve me.

Please, do not make grandiose claims of huge tributes and then refuse to make a reasonable and small $10 tribute. That is a sure fire way for you to be blocked. When I ask you to make a small tribute to show your loyalty, be ready to send me the $10. I want to see what you can do, not what you “will” or “would” do.

Please, do not contact me asking to be blackmailed without tribute. I will not waste my time discussing every last detail of your blackmail without seeing a tribute from you. I need to see you have money so that I can actually blackmail you, in order for my threats actually hold weight. If you have no money to be blackmailed for, then it's a waste for me. Also, don't contact me about how you would love to be blackmailed. I am only interested in those who want to role play for real, not those who contact me in order for me to simply provide a quick masturbatory fantasy. Make your tribute first and you will be blackmailed in a role play.

I have been a findom for many years. I have heard all the excuses. I can tell by the first correspondence if a slave is serious about serving me. I can tell if you are a real finslave or pay pig. I know it can be scary the first time, but I am well established. You can google me and do your research on me. I am not going anywhere. I've been here for eight years. I am also genuine about what I do. I am not going to bleed you dry. No real findom would do that. Most real findom's are refined and know the art of domination. If I bleed you dry it's to no ones benefit.

Tributing me should give you a thrill, make you feel a bit of fear and give you pleasure. Always, always email your goddess following a tribute. I want to reward the slave who pleases me with a thank you! I want to let you know how happy you have made me, and how pleased I am with how you are serving me. This is suppose me to fun for me too! Letting slaves know they have pleased me is part of the fun for me.

A proper and good finslave wants to be a good little oink-oink. He does not play games and does not live in the pretense, but in the present tense. He does not want to upset me with false promises. He wants to live up to his duties and beyond.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Want to be on Playboy TV?

Hello everyone!

It's been a busy-busy week here. I've been working on http://www.samanthagracelive.com
Shooting and getting everything together so, we can launch soon. I had a great time at the Swat party on Thursday too! I am hoping to see more of my blog readers there. I know many people ask me on webcam how and when they can meet me? The best place, is at these parties. These parties were you can serve me for real, in person!

I just went to a casting call a few days ago for a TV show called "The Truth About Sex" that will be on Playboy Tv. It's the myth busters of sex.They need to cast a huge amount of people okay with being nude or topless in the Los Angeles area. As many of you know, I am all about helping the collective of model and performer friends find work. If you go to the casting, it's pretty much a giving that you will probably have a spot on the show because they need so many people. 

It's a great chance to make some extra cash and get a TV spot credit. They will be working with most performers at least a day, upwards to three days. So, I think this will be a great opportunity for sure. They are looking for both men and women, 18-35 or look within that age range. I have a feeling since it is Playboy, they will want you to be attractive and height/ weight proportional. 

They are filming the week of May 21st and the week of May 28th.


Information on the casting and where to go....

The Truth About Sex: Casting (two more days)

Saturday, May 5th – Noon till 6pm

Friday May 11 from 11am till 6pm
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Location:  15335 Morrison Street, Sherman Oaks, CA (Suite 301)

Email Nikki to Schedule a Casting Appt: casting.ctproductions@gmail.com



Monday, April 30, 2012

Being An Effective Top


I wrote a little thing below on what I thought makes a great mistress. Things I like about myself and apply to my craft. I use female terms like mistress and her because I am a female. However, this applies to both male and female tops. A good top at the end of the day is in control of themselves, in a calm assertive manner.

Being an Effective Top, Mistress, or Master

Control is number one. A mistress is always in control of herself and her emotions. How should she have control of her bottoms when she cannot control herself. She never punishes when angry. When her temper becomes high, she knows when to walk away and regain control of her thoughts and emotions.

She has self respect and respect for others. She always tries to strive to be the best version of herself as she can. Which means, she always works on projecting herself in a positive manner. She also, expects her bottoms to, have self respect and respect for others. Again, she should guide them to project themselves in a positive way.

A mistress knows who she is. That she is a human just like anyone else. She makes mistakes, like anyone else. When she makes mistakes she apologizes. Being able to apology to yourself, friends, family, and bottom/slaves/subs does not make you any less of a mistress. It makes you respected. A person who, is self aware is able to build trust with those who serve her. She also, understands her bottoms and other people will make mistakes. She may punish her bottoms for mistakes, she still accepts apologies. Understands mistakes are something of the past once, the punishment is enforced.

She is Compassionate. She cares about bottoms and people around her. She listens to those around her and is not selfish. She maybe a goddess to her slaves, but understands even in role play, the world does not revolve around her. 

A good top, never tops out of hate. Never, is abusive. She always tops from, a firm but caring and loving place. A great top always, gives the bottom love and aftercare, after an intense scene.

A mistress should always work on her technique, stay creative and keep educating herself. What that means, she knows how to use her toys. She has tested her toys on herself before using them on her bottoms. She reads educational resources on BDSM and communicates with others in the scene to, further her craft. She also puts energy and creativity in her scenes. Meaning she will go the extra length to come up with a great scene.

She should always be consistent and thorough. Which can be tough for most tops. What that means is making clear consistent requests and instructions to bottoms. Which in s scene can be tough especially, when one is in the moment and enjoy herself. She always gives an equal punishment for an offense. She always rewards, when she is pleased. She is very firm and doesn't flip-flip when in a tough situation. When being thorough she directs the scene in a matter so, the bottom can reach head space needed. That includes removing distractions and making sure her wants are fulfilled. She is a strong woman and knows how to make it happen.

A mistress takes care of herself. Her body, her looks, her toys, her dungeon and her bottoms. She makes sure she can be proud of herself and her surroundings.

She is always safe and communicates well. She is well aware of the risks and dangers of BDSM play both, physical and mental. Does her best to prevent harm and checks in with her bottoms often. She is effective in communication. She means what she says. She picks her words wisely. She also, is aware of first aid and has basic first aid training. She also, know who to contact in the case of an emergency during play.

Last but not lest, a mistress does not bitch, moan, nag, rant, whine, or complain. That type of behavior shows a lack of control. A mistress should always be in check with her calm assertive demeanor.